True You Advantage

Bringing TRUE YOU to Life

​Using Dreams for Guidance

Every night, your dreams speak to you of your possibilities, of collective universal wisdom, and of specific solutions to your problems.Dreams provide direct access to an incredible wealth of intuitive wisdom readily available to you.Are you listening? The beauty of dreams is they require so...

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Practicing Gratitude

There is a law of life that can be found in all religious and spiritual traditions and, if you think about it, within your own experience. It is this: what you focus on multiplies. Or, in other words, what you believe, you will receive. Put yet another way, what you think about, you...

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​Befriending Time

Recently, my coach hit me over the head with this:"Time is not the enemy of your dreams." Immediately, my contrary inner voice shouted:"Oh yeah, you don't know my schedule," and "I am very organized, and still I can't get to all the things that would make my dreams come true," and "Easy for you...

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​When Manifestation Doesn't Work (Warning: this post contains tough truths)

You did the vision board. You policed your mind for negative thoughts. You did daily 4-minute visualizations. And still…crickets.The Universe seems silent in response.There's no Maserati. No overflowing bank account.No perfect partner. This happens to everyone.It's hard and it hurts, but it is...

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​Assuming Response-ability

I came around the curve and to an abrupt stop behind a red river of brake lights, flowing as far ahead as I could see, down, into the mouth of the tunnel. Eyes shot to the clock:5:53. I would not be early, as I had carefully planned and prepared for. Nor would I even be on time.I would be...

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​Adjusting Expectations

“What we expect, we experience,” all the spiritual traditions say. But what, then, explains bad service at an expensive, fancy restaurant, where you go expecting the best? Or not getting the promotion/client/job when we were clearly the most qualified? And what about divorce?... certainly not...

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​Sssssssshhhhhhhhhhhhh

This was going to be a post about JFM‘s (Just for Me’s, Opposite of Burnout, p 28), the pleasant little treats we can give ourselves every day to restore and reinvent ourselves like: a break bright lipcolor watching the sun set rose essential oil a tiny scone silky undies a spa...

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​The Guaranteed Way to Change Your Life (the Moving In the Direction of Principle)

The gap between what you want (deeper relationship, smaller body, more money, whatever) and what you have (well, you know what you have) can seem ENORMOUS! And this makes me sooooo excited. That big gap says so much about you. You have gained clarity on what you want. That is the most...

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​You are NOT Not Enough

It’s insidious, the chorus of little voices inside our head that tells us to be afraid—be very afraid!—because the world is a big scary place and we are small and powerless. They are the voices of our parents, teachers, doctors, lawyers, advertisers, marketers, commercials, partners, lovers,...

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​Our Struggle to be True - Walking the Fine Edge

Authenticity is a fine edge. I know that my best self is self-restrained and magnanimous, merciful and forbearing, courageous. I like showing you that part of me. In each moment I am working hard to make choices that “move toward” my best self. On the flip side, my “moving away from” traits are...

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